There’s a book called Red Flags in Psychotherapy. It’s often used as a text for ethics units in counselling.
Instead of calling Christie Tate’s memoir, Group, let’s call it Red Flags in Psychotherapy Part Two.
Group chronicles Tate’s experience in group therapy over a number of years. She sought therapy after struggling with an eating disorder, thoughts of death, and because she had trouble maintaining meaningful relationships.
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Firstly, I’m glad for Tate that she benefited from her long and extensive therapy experience (which peaked at three sessions a week). In her acknowledgments, she thanks her therapist, Dr. Rosen, noting that she has paid him so much money over the years that he could afford a luxury yacht, however, he gave her a ‘life’, and she figures that’s a fair exchange.
Secondly, and importantly, Tate’s experience is in no way an account of ethically-run group therapy (or any therapy). There are so many boundary violations in this book that I lost count (start with the disclosure; the ‘prescriptions’; the physical contact). Boundary violations are synonymous with unethical practice; are damaging for the client; and can be career-ending for the therapist. I don’t understand how Dr. Rosen is in practice.
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The group, an open group, ran on the basis of full disclosure – no secrets, tell everyone everything, and group members can discuss the sessions with whomever they like. Dr. Rosen questioned why people were so invested in privacy, and said –
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Keeping secrets from other people is more toxic than other people knowing your business.
Furthermore –
Holding on to secrets is a way of holding shame that doesn’t belong to you.
To a certain extent I agree with these ideas. However, shame is very, very tricky territory, and often associated with trauma. And managing trauma is a very, very specialised part of therapy. On that basis alone, I can’t recommend this book (but if you are interested in shame, listen to Monica Lewinsky’s TED Talk or delve into the writing of Brené Brown).
1.5/5 Half a mark for the bit about the engagement ring, which had me saying aloud, “Oh my frickin’ god… is this a cult?”
Tate goes to her therapist’s house for dinner (IKR?), where she was served roasted carrot soup.